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Being a fashion admirer and being in styling business for long now, I have realized fashion is for everyone & every size. Today everyone is skeptical about each size and looks. Which is respectable in a sense, as everyone is taking themselves seriously. Making your life healthy is an investment in yourself. But I have realized somehow this is leaving an argumentative effect as well. My precise point of this content is ‘being confident or “fashionable” doesn’t mean you to have a particular body structure’. Confidence has/have nothing to do with your body structure.
My Personal Experience:
To share my personal experience few years back I was in the “perfect” shape. Lean body with flat stomach no extra inches, as I was into modelling business. At that point I didn’t appreciate my body. For e.g. due to menstrual cycle my stomach use to bloat (which is very natural) I failed to understand and disgusted myself. Cut to today I’m at least 4 sizes more than what I was. Things changed drastically in my life, my priorities had changed was occupied with so many things that I didn’t realize what was happening to my body. It was like all of a sudden waking up to a different body structure altogether. There were assumptions, criticism of course jokes, which I dint know how to deal with it.
I had achieved so much, gone through so much but nobody was talking about it, all they were talking about is my weight. But without getting demotivated or desperate to answer them. I was just thrilled how can I stylized the new body, new me. How can I embrace these stretch-marks as they are the sign of my journey till now! My confidence was the same. My love for fashion was still stirring. I experimented, tried everything, sometimes it failed sometimes it worked. My closet was getting interesting. High-waist pants/denims became my darling my full thighs were looking a million buck. Dresses with waist cuts flaunted my curves more. My face was glowing. I somehow enjoyed it too. It took me by surprise. I never respected my body more than this ever. I am not advocating any body size here, it’s just about embracing yourself as you are. And many think it’s easy to say, but trust me I have been there and somehow did it gracefully (I think so!)
I was able to style myself with most pretty clothes back then (lean body) and even today. Today is the day when most of them dig in to my wardrobe as it is colorful and stylish. When so many people say they look up to me and can run down anytime for fashion tips, this all just encouraged me. Roving from one body type to another still be able dress to kill.
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One common tip I give to everyone to look fabulous is to start loving your body as it is! That’s when you look great that’s when you see positive changes which you desire. All this conveys only one message that yes! Fashion is for everyone and every size!
17 Comments
Sanika
Well written and inspiring, best wishes for future endeavors.😊
Sanjana
Very interesting and realistic post to read!!
Pranav
Im really proud of you Deveshree, for all your struggles and your journey, God bless you.
devendra shinde
Wowww such a well said u have return and u have prooved fashion doesn’t require any perfect body or perfect looks or body tone it’s just need is ur positive attitude towards yourself.keep it up Deveshree.
Neha Solankurkar
Amazing and a bold post indeed. Everyone is beautiful in their own way and all they need is that sprinkle of confidence
Madhuri
Debu, its a very thought provoking write up. You hv actually expressed frm a female,s perspective as women are more concious of their curves which eventually evety woman hs to go thr some or the othe othr time in their lives. U hv englightened these females by stating that u got to b comfortable in their skin
Rajshree
Reading this has definitely been an inspiration and keep up the good work .
Pranav
You are definitely looking gorgeous and after reading the whole story it seems soo inspirational . Love your work and best of luck.
Jyotsana Sharma
I can only say ua an Fashion Icon…& your perspective towards females is very refreshing…well wriiten all the best Deveshree
Swarda
Best of luck! I see a lot of potential in your way of pursuing your ideologies !!!! You go girl !!!!! I hope you will achieve what you want to because your approach is realistic and artistic which attracts most of the people who are in need of such encouragement! Good luck!👍🏻
Samardhana
Very well written. The personal experiences makes the reader trust you!
Rutuja
This is an absolutely fabulous written article…. I loved the content and the way you have expressed your views…. Would love to read more from you….. Once again…. Brilliant writing!! Congrats!
Aditya Kharat
Well….this was worth reading ….😇😇❤❤
Shweta
Nicely written!
Aryaman
Well written got truly inspired and definitely will work on it after my 10th.
Ninad
totally agreed .written very good